The Drift – Not a Friend in Life

I have been working with a small group in our church where we have been discussing the book  Living Forward, A Proven Plan to Stop Drifting and get the Life you Want.  The authors Michael Hyatt and Daniel Harkavy begin the book by introducing the villain:  The Drift.  They give their own personal examples of how The Drift led them into this whole life planning thing.  I will leave you to read the book to discover these stories.  Essentially, The Drift comes in two basic forms:

  • Not paying attention or being aware. Going with the flow; lettingdrift all the forces around you determine your path and even destination, rather than you taking responsibility and DECIDING.
  • Heading in the wrong direction.  For whatever reason you have a destination in mind but have never really thought and DECIDED, “am I headed where I am put on this earth to be?”
 
I have a confession, I don’t have a big problem with the first form of drift.  I have always had a sense of purpose and direction.  This was instilled in me by my father, “You can do anything you put your mind to” he would say.  I believed him.  You see I am always on a mission, but finding the right mission for the right reason with the right people took one major derailment as I turned 20:  a broken marriage.  That was my crisis and it was devastating.  I say with unending gratitude, but for the grace of God I might have not only derailed, but crashed and burned.
Drifts Discussed
Let’s talk about these two forms of drift.   As I am a retired air traffic controller and current private pilot, I find aviation, specifically a trip by commercial plane, a good illustration.  In fact, let’s go behind the scenes of said trip to see how this applies.  When a pilot begins to plan a flight, they first find out where they are to go and look up the code for that destination.  They check weather, including the route and altitude they want in light of the most favorable winds as well as the capabilities of the particular plane they will be flying.  They then file a flight plan with air traffic control and request the route and altitude they want to take.  Air traffic control approves or amends the requested route and altitude in relation to all the others who are headed that same direction.  When the pilot requests clearance they may get a “cleared as filed” or “I have an amended clearance, are you ready to copy?”.  Occasionally, even the requested destination may not be available due to weather or other factors.  Sounds like living life, right?
Planning

Would you hop on a flight that you had paid good money for, to a  destination called “we have no idea”?  No planning for fuel, weather, aircraft safety or other life critical factors?  So why do we do this for the life we are living?  The fact is, this is at best a waste and irresponsible.  At worst, it is just plain dangerous.  For you, and for those you are connected to on this earth.

The other reality is, few if any, plan their life intentionally, it just never occurs to them.  Most simply don’t know any better. Perhaps is it due to the fact that our parents launched us on this journey (without any input from us, I might add) and if not taught otherwise, we simply exist.  In any case, we all are going somewhere, but is it the somewhere that you desire?  Where you are destined to be?

Back to the aviation analogy

Although rare, there are occasions in planning a flight that the pilot might intend to go to one destination but get the wrong code.  Air traffic control gives a clearance to the filed requested destination even though it is not the destination the pilot intended to go.  You have heard of those occasions where a flight lands at the wrong airport?  How did it happen?  Not paying attention.

Then there are the external forces on a flight.  Wind will, unless the pilot and air traffic are aware, simply push the flight off course.  Severe weather may require taking a longer route or even require waiting to depart.  Mechanical issues with the aircraft or the air traffic system may cause a delay.  These all represent life events, that without a clear plan could prevent one from reaching the desired destination.
The Drift Anti-Dote
So how does this relate to a life plan?  In the case of finding oneself headed in the wrong direction, or even arriving at the wrong destination, just like on a flight, there is a solution: get a plan that will get you to the desired destination.  Although a bit embarrassing and sometimes rather expensive, it is fixable.  If you have breath, there is time – today.  In the case of external forces. a life plan, like a flight plan, when given intentional thought and periodic review will keep you headed the right direction,  Even if there are some re-routes or delays along the way.
We all have our own Journey, our story.  This is why I started this BLOG to:
  • challenge you to think about where you are today
  • look at the resources you have at hand and,
  • look at the direction you are currently headed.
With that starting point in view,  to then dream, decide and direct with intention your journey.  I recommend the book Living Forward, A Proven Plan to Stop Drifting and get the Life you Want, as a guide to:
– first, ensure to head the direction you want to go and,
– second, to not allow all the forces conspiring to distract you from YOUR journey, have any say in the matter.  It is YOUR one life to live.  This is YOUR time to begin.
 What  first step will you can take today in making a life plan?

I am a former air traffic controller, pilot, Aircoupe owner, married 42 years to a great guy. We live in a 125+ year old historic Victorian, enjoy cats, vintage anything, precious friends. My passion is Giving Lost Stories A Voice – Giving Found Materials Fresh Form and Purpose!

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